Hearthlight

A marriage app for husband and wife: date each other again, talk about what matters, and rekindle intimacy one small step at a time. Free, private, no account, works offline.

Your marriage

Enter once. Names stay on this phone and appear in Yes / No / Maybe, Play Together, the Builder and the quizzes.

Date Night Builder

Date your spouse again. Pick your constraints and get a full evening: a date, a warm-up question, three questions at your depth, and optional extras. The spicy add-on matches your depth: Light is Sweet, Deeper is Spicy, Intimate is Bold.

Date Cards

Date-your-spouse nights, anniversary ideas, at-home dates for after the kids are in bed, and private vow renewals. Colorado-only shows the outdoor and mountain picks.

Things To Do

Small marriage rituals that fit into a normal week: love notes, the six-second kiss, a daily ten-minute talk, an appreciation ritual. Most take under 15 minutes.

Discuss

Marriage check-ins for calm moments, not mid-argument: intimacy, romance after kids, chores, in-laws, money, the future, and a weekly state-of-our-marriage talk. One prompt at a time; listen more than you fix.

Conversation Starters

Questions for husband and wife, color-coded by category. Swipe the card, or use the arrows.

Tip: swipe left for the next card, right to go back.

Intimacy Growth

The 30-day Marriage Intimacy Challenge: one small step a day that builds emotional, physical and spiritual closeness. Progress is saved on this phone.

How I Feel Loved

A 10-question quiz written for Hearthlight. Each of you answers privately, then compare. Saved on this phone only.

Kinky & Intimate

18+ only. For husband and wife, rekindling desire in a long marriage. Suggestive, never graphic. Skip anything that doesn't feel right; nothing here is a to-do list.

Consent first
Green: keep goingYellow: slow down, check inRed: stop

    Spark

    Extras for husband and wife: dream getaways to plan, a bucket list for two, flirty invites to send, love coupons to redeem, and a how-well-do-you-know-me game.

    Some cards are 18+. Suggestive, never graphic. Every invite can be answered with Green, Yellow, or a rain check, and a no is always okay.

      How it compares

      Hearthlight is built for married couples. Prices are US App Store or official-site listings checked 27 Oct 2026, and vary by region and promotion. "Built for marriage" goes by how each app describes itself in its listing.

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